Michelle E. Vásquez, MS, LPC
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Michelle E. Vásquez, MS, LPC Your San Antonio Relationship Coach Email me at: mevasquez55@aol.com

Check out my blogs at: http://languageofrelating.blogspot.com/, http://awaresingle.blogspot.com/, and http://powerofgratitude.blogspot.com/

NOTE: I am excited to announce that I am moving out of state in December 2008. As such, I will continue to provide Relationship Coaching by telephone to people all across the United States. If you are interested in Relationship Coaching, I am currently offering special rates for people who sign up before December 31, 2008. I would be happy to give you more information by email or on the phone!

Are you unhappy with your relationship?

Have you tried everything to fix your relationship and nothing works?

Do you feel lonely despite being in your relationship?

Do you think about separating or divorce even though you worry about how it will affect your children?

Do you wonder if the love is gone?

Is the constant arguing wearing you both down?

Before you decide to separate, talk to me. Most relationships can be saved. Best of all, it doesn’t need to take years of Relationship Coaching to make improvements! Even if your partner is unwilling to come with you, you can still help your marriage.

Most of the people I work with make improvements in their relationships in an average of 8 sessions. If we decide to work together, we’ll set concrete, realistic goals and focus on solutions.

Looking for the Love of Your Life?
If you’re single and you’re wondering if you’ll ever find your soul mate, you’re not alone. You may think all the good ones are taken or married. Not so! There is hope for you. Too many people date without a clear objective. We are social creatures; we want to be with other people and we want to be happily attached. Do you find yourself mindlessly seeking attachments, only to end up with someone who is totally inappropriate for you? Are you so lonely that you find you are compromising your values just to have someone in your life? Do you hang onto that person because you fear loneliness more than you fear continuing to be miserable? Do you find that when you begin a relationship, it's always wonderful in the beginning, but it quickly devolves into a power struggle? When the power struggle begins, do you quickly become disillusioned and run away? How can you find an appropriate partner if you don't know what you want? As a Coach specializing in relationships, I can help you to focus on what you want and how you can find it. So many times this involves looking within to see what you are doing that is either attracting the wrong person or pushing away the right person. In both cases, it has very little to do with the other person and almost everything to do with you! That’s where I can help. I can help you create your vision of your ideal relationship. I can also help you change your ineffective behaviors that are keeping you from finding and keeping the relationship you want. Send me an email with your relationship question to mevasquez55@aol.com and I’ll answer it for free. If we decide to work together, we’ll set some concrete, realistic goals to help you become the best YOU possible so you can find the best match for you! Check out my dating blog at: http://awaresingle.blogspot.com/

Looking for the Love of Your Life?

If you’re single and you’re wondering if you’ll ever find your soul mate, you’re not alone. You may think all the good ones are taken or married. Not so! There is hope for you.

Too many people date without a clear objective. We are social creatures; we want to be with other people and we want to be happily attached.

Do you find yourself mindlessly seeking attachments, only to end up with someone who is totally inappropriate for you?

Are you so lonely that you find you are compromising your values just to have someone in your life? Do you hang onto that person because you fear loneliness more than you fear continuing to be miserable?

Do you find that when you begin a relationship, it's always wonderful in the beginning, but it quickly devolves into a power struggle? When the power struggle begins, do you quickly become disillusioned and run away?

How can you find an appropriate partner if you don't know what you want?

As a Coach specializing in relationships, I can help you to focus on what you want and how you can find it. So many times this involves looking within to see what you are doing that is either attracting the wrong person or pushing away the right person.

In both cases, it has very little to do with the other person and almost everything to do with you! That’s where I can help. I can help you create your vision of your ideal relationship. I can also help you change your ineffective behaviors that are keeping you from finding and keeping the relationship you want.

Send me an email with your relationship question to mevasquez55@aol.com and I’ll answer it for free. If we decide to work together, we’ll set some concrete, realistic goals to help you become the best YOU possible so you can find the best match for you!

Check out my dating blog at: http://awaresingle.blogspot.com/

Couples, Partnership Coaching
Coaching for couples includes: Relationship Readiness Setting concrete goals for improving your relationship Premarital Planning Conflict Resolution skills Relationship Wellness assessment Learning to use Choice Theory in your daily interactions Check out my couples blog at: http://languageofrelating.blogspot.com/
Divorce Mediation
This is not a legal type of mediation, but rather a way for people in the process of or in the aftermath of a divorce to develop some skills to improve their interactions with their former spouse. Services include: Conflict resolution skills Parenting children of divorce Understanding the effects of divorce on children Minimizing further damage to your children's mental health Learning Choice Theory Working to reduce animosity and replace it with more neutral feelings

Couples, Partnership Coaching

Coaching for couples includes:

Relationship Readiness
Setting concrete goals for improving your relationship
Premarital Planning
Conflict Resolution skills
Relationship Wellness assessment
Learning to use Choice Theory in your daily interactions

Check out my couples blog at: http://languageofrelating.blogspot.com/

Divorce Mediation

This is not a legal type of mediation, but rather a way for people in the process of or in the aftermath of a divorce to develop some skills to improve their interactions with their former spouse. Services include:

Conflict resolution skills
Parenting children of divorce
Understanding the effects of divorce on children
Minimizing further damage to your children's mental health
Learning Choice Theory
Working to reduce animosity and replace it with more neutral feelings

SOME RESOURCES YOU MIGHT FIND USEFUL:

500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets: Click Here!

Save My Marriage Today: Click Here!

1000 Questions For Couples By Michael Webb Relationship Expert Click Here!

Save the Marriage EBook: Click Here!

Calling Men: Know When and How to Call the Man in your Life, Mimi Tanner: Click Here!

The Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave, Bob Grant: Click Here!

What Husbands Can't Resist, Bob Grant: Click Here!

How to Find the Man of Your Dreams, Bob Grant: Click Here!

Save your Christian Marriage: Click Here!

Survive an Affair: Click Here!

Should You Stay or Should You Go, Susie and Otto Collins: Click Here!

Saving Your Marriage with Trust and Love, Emanuel and Raquel Fox: Click Here!

Overcome Control Conflict: Click Here!

Get your Relationship Success cards here! A set of 30 cards, 3.5 by 3.5 inches, one for each day of the month. These cards have short messages that you can use to inspire you each day and help you to get closer to the people you love. For more information, click here.